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What does the Bible say about grief?
Scripture does not hurry the bereaved. It weeps, laments, and refuses to say death is nothing.
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Jesus at the tomb
Jesus weeps at Lazarus’s tomb even though he will call him out (John 11:33–35). Grief is not unbelief. The shortest verse in many English Bibles is also one of the most revealing: God the Son is moved by a friend’s death and sisters’ pain.
Matthew Henry’s Commentary · Matthew Henry
Henry on John 11 says Christ’s tears honor the affection of friendship and teach us that piety is not stoicism.
Grieve, but not as those without hope
Paul tells the Thessalonians not to grieve “like the rest of mankind, who have no hope” (1 Thessalonians 4:13–18). He does not say “do not grieve.” The difference is the resurrection of Jesus and the promise of reunion. The Psalms and Lamentations give language when words fail.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary · JFB
JFB on 1 Thessalonians 4 note that the prohibition is of hopeless grief, not of tears; the comfort is the Lord’s coming, not a theory of the soul alone.